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I Thought You Were Different

October 17, 2012

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James 4

humble yourselves before God, resist the devil and he will flee from you

1 Where do wars and fightings among you come from? Don’t they come from your pleasures that war in your members?

2 You lust, and don’t have. You murder and covet, and can’t obtain. You fight and make war. You don’t have, because you don’t ask.

3 You ask, and don’t receive, because you ask with wrong motives, so that you may spend it on your pleasures.

4 You adulterers and adulteresses, don’t you know that friendship with the world is hostility toward God? Whoever therefore wants to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God.

5 Or do you think that the Scripture says in vain, “The Spirit who lives in us yearns jealously”?

6 But he gives more grace. Therefore it says, “God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.”

7 Be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.

8 Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded.

9 Lament, mourn, and weep. Let your laughter be turned to mourning, and your joy to gloom.

10 Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he will exalt you.

11 Don’t speak against one another, brothers. He who speaks against a brother and judges his brother, speaks against the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law, but a judge.

12 Only one is the lawgiver, who is able to save and to destroy. But who are you to judge another?

13 Come now, you who say, “Today or tomorrow let’s go into this city, and spend a year there, trade, and make a profit.”

14 Whereas you don’t know what your life will be like tomorrow. For what is your life? For you are a vapor, that appears for a little time, and then vanishes away.

15 For you ought to say, “If the Lord wills, we will both live, and do this or that.”

16 But now you glory in your boasting. All such boasting is evil.

17 To him therefore who knows to do good, and doesn’t do it, to him it is sin.

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Psalm 46:1

God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble

1 God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.

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Romans 8:28

he is working it together for good

28 We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose.

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Romans 8:29

God's ultimate purpose that we be conformed more and more into the image of Jesus

29 For whom he foreknew, he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers.

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James 1:12

God blesses those who endure testing and temptation and afterward they will receive the crown of life

12 Blessed is the man who endures temptation, for when he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life, which the Lord promised to those who love him.

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1 Corinthians 10:13

no trial or test will be allowed that he knows we cannot bear

13 No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.

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John 14:27

let not your heart be troubled and do not be afraid

27 Peace I leave with you. My peace I give to you; not as the world gives, give I to you. Don’t let your heart be troubled, neither let it be fearful.

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Matthew 4

the account of the enemy tempting Jesus, referenced in the closing prayer

1 Then Jesus was led up by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil.

2 When he had fasted forty days and forty nights, he was hungry afterward.

3 The tempter came and said to him, “If you are the Son of God, command that these stones become bread.”

4 But he answered, “It is written, ‘Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God.’”

5 Then the devil took him into the holy city. He set him on the pinnacle of the temple,

6 and said to him, “If you are the Son of God, throw yourself down, for it is written, ‘He will put his angels in charge of you.’ and, ‘On their hands they will bear you up, so that you don’t dash your foot against a stone.’”

7 Jesus said to him, “Again, it is written, ‘You shall not test the Lord, your God.’”

8 Again, the devil took him to an exceedingly high mountain, and showed him all the kingdoms of the world, and their glory.

9 He said to him, “I will give you all of these things, if you will fall down and worship me.”

10 Then Jesus said to him, “Get behind me, Satan! For it is written, ‘You shall worship the Lord your God, and you shall serve him only.’”

11 Then the devil left him, and behold, angels came and served him.

12 Now when Jesus heard that John was delivered up, he withdrew into Galilee.

13 Leaving Nazareth, he came and lived in Capernaum, which is by the sea, in the region of Zebulun and Naphtali,

14 that it might be fulfilled which was spoken through Isaiah the prophet, saying,

15 “The land of Zebulun and the land of Naphtali, toward the sea, beyond the Jordan, Galilee of the Gentiles,

16 the people who sat in darkness saw a great light, to those who sat in the region and shadow of death, to them light has dawned.”

17 From that time, Jesus began to preach, and to say, “Repent! For the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand.”

18 Walking by the sea of Galilee, he saw two brothers: Simon, who is called Peter, and Andrew, his brother, casting a net into the sea; for they were fishermen.

19 He said to them, “Come after me, and I will make you fishers for men.”

20 They immediately left their nets and followed him.

21 Going on from there, he saw two other brothers, James the son of Zebedee, and John his brother, in the boat with Zebedee their father, mending their nets. He called them.

22 They immediately left the boat and their father, and followed him.

23 Jesus went about in all Galilee, teaching in their synagogues, preaching the Good News of the Kingdom, and healing every disease and every sickness among the people.

24 The report about him went out into all Syria. They brought to him all who were sick, afflicted with various diseases and torments, possessed with demons, epileptics, and paralytics; and he healed them.

25 Great multitudes from Galilee, Decapolis, Jerusalem, Judea and from beyond the Jordan followed him.

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Recap

The message in order, in a few minutes of reading.

This message worked through the final temptation of Jesus in Matthew 4, looking at what it means to live visibly different from the world and to serve God only. The preacher drew on a story from Eric Sandras's book Buck Naked Faith alongside several passages of scripture to show how the enemy exploits our desire to blend in, and how God uses trials to shape and prove us. The sermon closed with the assurance that nothing comes to us without God's knowledge and care.

What was said

The sermon opened with a pattern many Christians recognize: the pressure of always being "on," always being the spiritual one, and the quiet pull toward just being like everyone else for a night. Eric Sandras told that story on himself in Buck Naked Faith, describing how he led a campus ministry of 250 students while secretly living a double life. The moment that broke him was not getting caught by a friend or a pastor. It was five words from a stranger: "I thought you were different." He knew she was right, and he knew he had used the megaphone of his life for the wrong side that night.

That image of a megaphone ran through the rest of the message. Whether we think of ourselves as influential or not, our lives speak. The question the sermon put to the room was simple: are we different, or are we just part of the world? Being in the world but not of it is not optional. God places us here to shine.

The third temptation, where Satan offered Jesus all the kingdoms of the world in exchange for worship, pressed that question further. The preacher noted that those kingdoms are already promised to Jesus, so the offer was empty to begin with. But the deeper point was what Satan was really asking for: just a little, just a piece, just some compromise. Jesus gave him none of it. He said get out, and the enemy left.

That moment in Matthew 4 connected to James 4: humble yourself before God, resist the devil, and he will flee. The preacher was direct that Christians sometimes give Satan far more credit than scripture does. Colossians 1:13 says God has already rescued us from the kingdom of darkness and transferred us to the kingdom of His Son. The enemy can whisper, and he will find our weak spots, but he has no authority over those who belong to Jesus.

From there the sermon turned to why God allows testing at all. In both Testaments, the word "test" means to prove by trial. What God is proving, the preacher said, is that He can be trusted. There is no suffering greater than His faithfulness. Psalm 46:1 was quoted: "God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble."

The preacher was honest that Christians are not immune from trouble and tears. Jesus said as much. But whatever reaches us is, as she put it, "father filtered," and Romans 8:28 promises He is working it together for good. The purpose behind that, Romans 8:29, is that we be conformed more and more into the image of Jesus.

James 1:12 added a further word: God blesses those who endure testing, and afterward they receive the crown of life. First Corinthians 10:13 closed the thought, with the assurance that nothing will be allowed to reach us that God does not already know we can bear through Him. Even the anxiety of reading a frightening news article the day before, the preacher said, gets answered by John 14:27: "Let not your heart be troubled and do not be afraid."

Doing a Bible study?

Here is a guide we have prepared for you: the passages in order, questions for the group, and room to write.

  1. Eric Sandras said he was drawn to 'the freedom of not being known for being different.' Have you ever felt that pull? What was going on in your life at the time?
  2. The preacher said our life is a megaphone whether we think so or not. Who in your life is actually watching how you live, and how does that reality sit with you?

and 3 more questions in the guide

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0:00 With you, that CNN article. This, I think, was a different Bible study actually last year maybe about how all these they'd follow these Christian kids in high school, and they took the purity pledge. They wore their purity rings. But when they went to college, they were like, it's just too hard. It's just too hard to be different.
0:22 And they were all just looking like everybody else in school. Eric Sandras is an amazing Bible study teacher. He wrote a book called Buck Naked Faith, a brutally honest look at stunned Christianity. I just wanna share real quick his story with you beginning of his book because it's powerful. He says, sex with a stranger was not supposed to end this way.
0:48 I hadn't gone into the evening wanting my two worlds to collide. But by midnight, my fantasy life was going to ensure that my spiritual life would begin to crumble. I had worked so hard to make sure I met this girl in a place where my Christian friends didn't hang out. The odds were totally in my favor. Well, at least until you factor in the Holy Spirit was there.
1:12 I attended a university with over 16,000 students. What was the chance that one girl at one remote college hangout would actually know me? You know, the other me, the spiritual me. It wasn't like I went to that club looking for sex. I think what I really wanted was just a reprieve from my everyday life.
1:33 I wanted to get away from always being so nice. I felt I deserved it. After all, I led a ministry boasting over 250 students, a Bible study at my college. Around campus, I always had to be un for everyone. I was a spiritual leader.
1:50 I had a responsibility to live a godly life. No doubt I was sincere for the lost and my desire to inspire others to become disciples of Jesus. I really did care about those things. Yet, periodically, I found myself drawn to the freedom of not being known for being different, for not being known for that stuff. I just want it to be like everyone else.
2:16 Sure, I evangelized and I occasionally thought about wanting the benefits that everyone else had, you know, their loose moral boundaries. It was sometimes appealing to indulge my flesh just a little bit. God had a different agenda for me that night. He was going to invade my private world and shake it to its core. From this moment on, my soul would be scarred.
2:43 I would forever know what the painful consequences of duplicity far outweigh its benefits. The dagger came as I smugly rolled over in bed feeling pretty good about my performance, and then I noticed the tears welling up in the girl's eyes. They were not tears of joy or even hurt. They were tears of disappointment. This became even more evident in the five words that accompanied those drops of disillusionment.
3:15 She said, I thought you were different. He said, that rocked my world because I knew in my heart I was different, but I chose to use my megaphone for the enemy that night. He is gonna get in wherever our weakness is and tell us it's okay. You can be different. I mean, you you you don't have to be different.
3:42 You can just be like everyone else. We can't negotiate this. Who are we? Are we different or are we just part of the world? Being in this world but not of it is necessary.
4:00 God puts us here for a reason, and that's to shine our light for him, to save souls by the megaphone of our life. We may not think our life is a megaphone, but trust me, it is. It is to us. It is to everybody who knows us. The final temptation in verse eight.
4:23 Next, the devil took Jesus to the peak of a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory. And he said, I will give it to you. I will give it all to you, he said. If you will just kneel down and worship me, I will give it all to you. We experience God's power at work within us when we choose to serve him and only him.
4:51 The enemy was saying, just serve me a little. I have a lot of goodies for you. But you know what? They're all empty because who are the kingdoms of this world promised to? Yeshua, Messiah.
5:05 He is the lion of Judah. He will reign over all this earth. But what does it mean in second Corinthians four four when it says that the devil is the God of this world or the God of this age? Gotquestions.org explains that what that means is that Satan is the major influence is the major influencer on ideas, opinions, goals, hopes, and views of the majority of people. His influence encompasses the world's philosophies, the world's education, thoughts, ideals, speculations, and false religions have sprung from his lies and misconceptions.
5:49 And, man, don't you see that? If if we stand up for Christ, we do have a different value system, don't we? God is still in control, though, and he still has authority over the enemy. And sometimes I just wanna point out that I talk to Christians who give him so much credit, and I don't understand that. Because Colossians one thirteen says, for he has rescued us from the kingdom of darkness and transferred us to the kingdom of his dear son.
6:25 He we are not under his authority. Yes. He can whisper those lies into us. And, he can tempt us. But Jesus is our example.
6:34 What did Jesus say in this last temptation? He said, get out of here, Satan. And again, he used the sword of truth to cut through his lies. He said, I'm gonna worship God and serve him only. You know what he was saying to Saint?
6:50 I'm not gonna give you a piece of my mind. I'm not gonna think about one thing you say. I'm gonna say no. I'm not gonna give you any of my heart. I'm not gonna compromise with anything in this world.
7:01 I'm gonna worship God, and I'm gonna worship him only. Jesus made it clear who he was serving. And what's fascinating is after Jesus said, get out of here, what happened to the enemy? He went away. And James four says, so humble yourselves before God, resist the devil and he will flee from you.
7:25 He has no authority over us. We come back with the word of God and we tell him, I belong to Jesus. Get away from me, and he flees. I like that. We have the power of Jesus' name to use.
7:41 We have the power of the truth to slice through all the lies. So why does God allow us to go through testing or temptations or trials anyways? What why? Well, what's interesting is in both the Old and New Testament, the word test literally means to prove by trial. What is God proving by trial?
8:07 He's proving by trial that I can trust him. There is no suffering on this earth that is greater than his faithfulness to me. There is nothing that's gonna happen to me that God isn't gonna help me through it. Psalm forty six one says, God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble. Just call him and trust him.
8:33 I think one of the most difficult parts of the Christian life is that we're not immune from troubles and tears and sorrows. We're just not immune. Jesus even said, I mean, this isn't heaven. This is earth. You're gonna have trouble here.
8:50 But this is the cool thing about being his daughter. Whatever comes to me is father filtered. And if I go to him, Romans eight twenty eight says what? That he's working it together for good. So when things come to me that I don't understand, I just say, okay, Lord, there is some good that needs to come out.
9:14 So I'm just going to hold your hand and trust you until we're to the end of this. Because there's some good that's gonna be revealed and it's gonna be greater than the suffering. That's his promise. But God's ultimate purpose for you and me comes in the next verse in Romans eight twenty nine, that we be conformed more and more into the image of Jesus, that we reflect him more and more. And this is the great thing about any suffering.
9:45 When you claim God's promises, James one twelve says that God blesses those who endure testing and temptation. And afterward they will receive the crown of life that God has promised to them. So not only is he going to bless you through it, even through the suffering you're going to see good. You're going to see blessings. But at the end you're promised a reward, the crown of life.
10:11 And he also tells us that in first Corinthians ten thirteen that there is no trial, there is no test that he is going to allow to come to us that he knows we can't bear. So even if it's killing me, I'm like, Lord, you must think I can bear it because I'm gonna claim your truth that nothing is gonna come to me that I cannot bear through you. Yesterday, I got this article about all the reasons why we're headed toward World War three. Now I'm a mother. I have two kids.
10:53 I wanna have grandbabies someday. I mean, I love living in Jackson. I love my life. I don't want it to blow up. And then I thought, well, John fourteen twenty seven says, let not your heart be troubled and do not be afraid.
11:12 John fourteen twenty seven, let not your heart be troubled and do not be afraid. Whatever is coming, whatever is gonna happen, it's gonna be okay when we're daughters of the king. It's gonna be okay. So we can experience the power at work within us when we trust him, when we choose to glorify him, and we when we serve him and serve him only. Father, thank you for this amazing example from Matthew four of how the enemy tempted Jesus and how Jesus just kept giving him your truth.
11:55 Thank you, Lord, that we know your word is true. We don't need to question it. Thank you that we know you are going to help us through every single day when we when we call to you, when we cry help, you show up. Thank you for that, father. Thank you that you have good plans and that you are working good for all of us as your daughters and your one son sitting back there.
12:23 Thank you for that, father. I just ask, Lord, that you strengthen us, that we choose to magnify with our megaphone the power that is at work within us. In Jesus name, amen.

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