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Luke 10:38-42 the main passage for the sermon, the story of Mary and Martha
38 As they went on their way, he entered into a certain village, and a certain woman named Martha received him into her house.
39 She had a sister called Mary, who also sat at Jesus’ feet, and heard his word.
40 But Martha was distracted with much serving, and she came up to him, and said, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister left me to serve alone? Ask her therefore to help me.”
41 Jesus answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things,
42 but one thing is needed. Mary has chosen the good part, which will not be taken away from her.”
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John 11
identified as the source for Bethany and the sisters of Lazarus
1 Now a certain man was sick, Lazarus from Bethany, of the village of Mary and her sister, Martha.
2 It was that Mary who had anointed the Lord with ointment, and wiped his feet with her hair, whose brother, Lazarus, was sick.
3 The sisters therefore sent to him, saying, “Lord, behold, he for whom you have great affection is sick.”
4 But when Jesus heard it, he said, “This sickness is not to death, but for the glory of God, that God’s Son may be glorified by it.”
5 Now Jesus loved Martha, and her sister, and Lazarus.
6 When therefore he heard that he was sick, he stayed two days in the place where he was.
7 Then after this he said to the disciples, “Let’s go into Judea again.”
8 The disciples told him, “Rabbi, the Jews were just trying to stone you, and are you going there again?”
9 Jesus answered, “Aren’t there twelve hours of daylight? If a man walks in the day, he doesn’t stumble, because he sees the light of this world.
10 But if a man walks in the night, he stumbles, because the light isn’t in him.”
11 He said these things, and after that, he said to them, “Our friend, Lazarus, has fallen asleep, but I am going so that I may awake him out of sleep.”
12 The disciples therefore said, “Lord, if he has fallen asleep, he will recover.”
13 Now Jesus had spoken of his death, but they thought that he spoke of taking rest in sleep.
14 So Jesus said to them plainly then, “Lazarus is dead.
15 I am glad for your sakes that I was not there, so that you may believe. Nevertheless, let’s go to him.”
16 Thomas therefore, who is called Didymus, said to his fellow disciples, “Let’s go also, that we may die with him.”
17 So when Jesus came, he found that he had been in the tomb four days already.
18 Now Bethany was near Jerusalem, about fifteen stadia away.
19 Many of the Jews had joined the women around Martha and Mary, to console them concerning their brother.
20 Then when Martha heard that Jesus was coming, she went and met him, but Mary stayed in the house.
21 Therefore Martha said to Jesus, “Lord, if you would have been here, my brother wouldn’t have died.
22 Even now I know that, whatever you ask of God, God will give you.”
23 Jesus said to her, “Your brother will rise again.”
24 Martha said to him, “I know that he will rise again in the resurrection at the last day.”
25 Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will still live, even if he dies.
26 Whoever lives and believes in me will never die. Do you believe this?”
27 She said to him, “Yes, Lord. I have come to believe that you are the Christ, God’s Son, he who comes into the world.”
28 When she had said this, she went away, and called Mary, her sister, secretly, saying, “The Teacher is here, and is calling you.”
29 When she heard this, she arose quickly, and went to him.
30 Now Jesus had not yet come into the village, but was in the place where Martha met him.
31 Then the Jews who were with her in the house, and were consoling her, when they saw Mary, that she rose up quickly and went out, followed her, saying, “She is going to the tomb to weep there.”
32 Therefore when Mary came to where Jesus was, and saw him, she fell down at his feet, saying to him, “Lord, if you would have been here, my brother wouldn’t have died.”
33 When Jesus therefore saw her weeping, and the Jews weeping who came with her, he groaned in the spirit, and was troubled,
34 and said, “Where have you laid him?” They told him, “Lord, come and see.”
35 Jesus wept.
36 The Jews therefore said, “See how much affection he had for him!”
37 Some of them said, “Couldn’t this man, who opened the eyes of him who was blind, have also kept this man from dying?”
38 Jesus therefore, again groaning in himself, came to the tomb. Now it was a cave, and a stone lay against it.
39 Jesus said, “Take away the stone.” Martha, the sister of him who was dead, said to him, “Lord, by this time there is a stench, for he has been dead four days.”
40 Jesus said to her, “Didn’t I tell you that if you believed, you would see God’s glory?”
41 So they took away the stone from the place where the dead man was lying. Jesus lifted up his eyes, and said, “Father, I thank you that you listened to me.
42 I know that you always listen to me, but because of the multitude standing around I said this, that they may believe that you sent me.”
43 When he had said this, he cried with a loud voice, “Lazarus, come out!”
44 He who was dead came out, bound hand and foot with wrappings, and his face was wrapped around with a cloth. Jesus said to them, “Free him, and let him go.”
45 Therefore many of the Jews, who came to Mary and saw what Jesus did, believed in him.
46 But some of them went away to the Pharisees, and told them the things which Jesus had done.
47 The chief priests therefore and the Pharisees gathered a council, and said, “What are we doing? For this man does many signs.
48 If we leave him alone like this, everyone will believe in him, and the Romans will come and take away both our place and our nation.”
49 But a certain one of them, Caiaphas, being high priest that year, said to them, “You know nothing at all,
50 nor do you consider that it is advantageous for us that one man should die for the people, and that the whole nation not perish.”
51 Now he didn’t say this of himself, but being high priest that year, he prophesied that Jesus would die for the nation,
52 and not for the nation only, but that he might also gather together into one the children of God who are scattered abroad.
53 So from that day forward they took counsel that they might put him to death.
54 Jesus therefore walked no more openly among the Jews, but departed from there into the country near the wilderness, to a city called Ephraim. He stayed there with his disciples.
55 Now the Passover of the Jews was at hand. Many went up from the country to Jerusalem before the Passover, to purify themselves.
56 Then they sought for Jesus and spoke one with another, as they stood in the temple, “What do you…
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Acts 22
Paul describing being educated at the feet of Gamaliel
1 “Brothers and fathers, listen to the defense which I now make to you.”
2 When they heard that he spoke to them in the Hebrew language, they were even more quiet. He said,
3 “I am indeed a Jew, born in Tarsus of Cilicia, but brought up in this city at the feet of Gamaliel, instructed according to the strict tradition of the law of our fathers, being zealous for God, even as you all are today.
4 I persecuted this Way to the death, binding and delivering into prisons both men and women.
5 As also the high priest and all the council of the elders testify, from whom also I received letters to the brothers, and traveled to Damascus to bring them also who were there to Jerusalem in bonds to be punished.
6 As I made my journey, and came close to Damascus, about noon, suddenly a great light shone around me from the sky.
7 I fell to the ground, and heard a voice saying to me, ‘Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting me?’
8 I answered, ‘Who are you, Lord?’ He said to me, ‘I am Jesus of Nazareth, whom you persecute.’
9 “Those who were with me indeed saw the light and were afraid, but they didn’t understand the voice of him who spoke to me.
10 I said, ‘What shall I do, Lord?’ The Lord said to me, ‘Arise, and go into Damascus. There you will be told about all things which are appointed for you to do.’
11 When I couldn’t see for the glory of that light, being led by the hand of those who were with me, I came into Damascus.
12 One Ananias, a devout man according to the law, well reported of by all the Jews who lived in Damascus,
13 came to me, and standing by me said to me, ‘Brother Saul, receive your sight!’ In that very hour I looked up at him.
14 He said, ‘The God of our fathers has appointed you to know his will, and to see the Righteous One, and to hear a voice from his mouth.
15 For you will be a witness for him to all men of what you have seen and heard.
16 Now why do you wait? Arise, be baptized, and wash away your sins, calling on the name of the Lord.’
17 “When I had returned to Jerusalem, and while I prayed in the temple, I fell into a trance,
18 and saw him saying to me, ‘Hurry and get out of Jerusalem quickly, because they will not receive testimony concerning me from you.’
19 I said, ‘Lord, they themselves know that I imprisoned and beat in every synagogue those who believed in you.
20 When the blood of Stephen, your witness, was shed, I also was standing by, and consenting to his death, and guarding the cloaks of those who killed him.’
21 “He said to me, ‘Depart, for I will send you out far from here to the Gentiles.’”
22 They listened to him until he said that; then they lifted up their voice, and said, “Rid the earth of this fellow, for he isn’t fit to live!”
23 As they cried out, and threw off their cloaks, and threw dust into the air,
24 the commanding officer commanded him to be brought into the barracks, ordering him to be examined by scourging, that he might know for what crime they shouted against him like that.
25 When they had tied him up with thongs, Paul asked the centurion who stood by, “Is it lawful for you to scourge a man who is a Roman, and not found guilty?”
26 When the centurion heard it, he went to the commanding officer and told him, “Watch what you are about to do, for this man is a Roman!”
27 The commanding officer came and asked him, “Tell me, are you a Roman?” He said, “Yes.”
28 The commanding officer answered, “I bought my citizenship for a great price.” Paul said, “But I was born a Roman.”
29 Immediately those who were about to examine him departed from him, and the commanding officer also was afraid when he realized that he was a Roman, because he had bound him.
30 But on the next day, desiring to know the truth about why he was accused by the Jews, he freed him from the bonds, and commanded the chief priests and all the council to come together, and brought Paul down and set him before them.
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Colossians 3:1-2
used as the benediction, setting hearts and minds on things above
1 If then you were raised together with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated on the right hand of God.
2 Set your mind on the things that are above, not on the things that are on the earth.
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Recap
The message in order, in a few minutes of reading.
Pastor Ray opened this message in Luke 10:38-42, the story of Mary and Martha, with a confession: he had always considered himself a Mary in a Martha world, and this passage caught him off guard. Working through the text over several weeks, he found it landed closer to home than he expected.
What was said
The previous week had ended at Luke 10:37, the close of the Good Samaritan story. Pastor Ray had asked the congregation to write down which group they saw as most opposed to the gospel's advance. The answers ranged across the political spectrum, but the ones that stood out most were simply "hypocritical Christians" and "Christians who don't act like it." He connected that to G.K. Chesterton's two-word answer to a newspaper that asked what was wrong with the world: "I am." Self-reflection, he said, is where this passage begins.
Luke places the story without much geographic detail, just that Jesus entered a village. John fills in that it was Bethany, the home of Martha, Mary, and Lazarus. Martha welcomed Jesus in, which Pastor Ray noted was genuinely gracious. But Mary sat at His feet and listened. He pointed out that for a first-century audience, "at the feet of" was not fan behavior; it was the language of discipleship. When Paul described his education under Gamaliel in Acts 22, he used the same expression. Mary was positioning herself as a learner.
Martha, meanwhile, was described in the Greek by the word "perispato," an imperfect verb, meaning this was not a one-time thing but a habitual pattern. Pastor Ray noted the verb can be read as either passive or middle voice: she was being distracted by outside forces, or she was distracting herself. He suggested both can be true at once. When Martha finally spoke to Jesus, her words, "Lord, do you not care?", carried the same urgency as the disciples in the boat during the storm. She was not being rude; she was genuinely overwhelmed. And she did what many people do with a book or a sermon: she decided someone else needed to hear it. "Tell her to help me."
Jesus answered her not with a rebuke but with tenderness. "Martha, Martha" was compassionate, not scolding. He said she was worried and pulled apart by many things, using the word "merimnas," which pictures a person being divided in opposite directions, going to pieces. Then He said that one thing was necessary, and Mary had chosen the good part, a word, "merida," that Pastor Ray noted was related to "merimnas," almost a pun. A portion, an assigned share. Mary had understood the assignment.
Pastor Ray then turned it on himself. He described his years doing safety training, driving hours a day, filling the time with talk radio, and realizing only later how much that input shaped his thinking. He talked about buying a copy of "Martha to the Max," leaving it out for Tanya to find, and eventually reading it aloud to her because he was sure she needed it, then reading it to her mother over the phone, and never once thinking it applied to him. His brother asks "what are you doing?" instead of "how are you?" His father told him he was becoming a human doing instead of a human being.
He pulled the passage back to its place in Luke's larger structure, drawing on Darrell Bock's commentary. The Good Samaritan shows what it looks like to love your neighbor. This story shows what has to come first. The lawyer's question, "what must I do to inherit eternal life?", was answered with two commands: love God and love your neighbor. The lawyer immediately asked about the neighbor. Luke, by placing this story right after, answers the part the lawyer skipped. You cannot love your neighbor well if you are not paying attention to God first. The Lord's Prayer follows next in the text, completing the picture: love of neighbor, attention to Jesus, and dependence on God through prayer belong together.
The benediction came from Colossians 3: "Set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God." The invitation of the whole message, as Pastor Ray put it, was not to stop serving but to make sure the serving grows out of actually listening.
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- Pastor Ray asked the congregation who they thought was the biggest obstacle to the gospel's advance, and the answers that hit hardest were 'hypocritical Christians' and 'Christians who don't act like it.' G.K. Chesterton's two-word answer to 'What is wrong with the world?' was 'I am.' How do you respond to that kind of self-reflection, and where does it take you personally?
- Pastor Ray said he had always considered himself a Mary in a Martha world, and only recently realized he might be more of a Martha than he thought. Has a Bible passage ever surprised you by landing on you in a way you did not expect? What happened?
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